Sunday, June 16, 2019

Sweet Sabbath



After a month of trying, this morning we finally got Aaron on a new-to-us ship, the Nakita.  The plan is for him to follow the ship to Marulaon, pick up the much anticipated school books, make a program with Ezekiel for next week, and be back in Honiara by tomorrow night.  We know to hold our plans loosely!


We have to make a choice:  Am I willing to do so-and-so, or do I dig my heels in and say, "I can't.  I won't"  One thing I have learned:  God never asks us to do something without supplying the needed "tools" for the job, be they physical, intellectual, or spiritual.  You just begin with trust and let Him stay in charge.  "All I have needed Thy hand hath provided.  Great is Thy faithfulness, Lord, unto me."  ~Margaret Brand


Saturday, June 15, 2019

"A bar of steel worth $5 when made into ordinary horseshoes will be worth only $10.  If this same $5 is manufactured into needles, the value rises to $350, but if it is made into delicate springs for expensive watches, it will be worth $250,000.  This original bar of steel is made more valuable by being cut to its proper size, passed through one blast furnace after another, again and again, hammered and manipulated, beaten and pounded, finished and polished, until it is ready for those delicate tasks."  ~ M.R. DeHaan


This has been a doosy of a week!  

-Aaron thought he was going to the village on Sunday, then the ship delayed and changed its mind again and again.  

-A dear Solomon Island friend had a stroke early this week, so SITAG has rallied around her, providing the food and toiletries and prayer and physical help that the hospital in Honiara requires.  She has a long road ahead to recovery.

-An international school here in Honiara finally got its certification to offer the PSAT and SAT, saving us a trip to Australia.  But when we met with them on Thursday morning, we learned that they've lost their certification because no students have requested the exams.  At least we got a two hour "date" out of the meeting!


-Today, one of our SITAG colleagues had a wreck on his motorbike while visiting his language group and needed a trip to the hospital.  So Aaron dropped everything, hopped in the truck with a couple other of the SITAG men, and drove off to help.  

My list of "hammered and manipulated, beaten and pounded" looks different than those around me, but we all have those lists.

"These [trials] have come so that your faith -- of greater worth than gold, which perishes even through refined by fire -- may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed."  I Peter 1:7 (NIV)

Thankfully, I also have people in my circle who remind me not to be selfish.  They remind me that these hard things are simply tools to help me be more ready for the tasks the Lord has for me.  Those friends remind me that the whole point is for my life to "result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed", even if I don't understand how.

Thursday, June 13, 2019

Goodbyes

Last night, we felt like we were on the wrong side of the ship.  For ten years, Patteson and his sons have taken us down to the wharf and helped us load our cargo on the ship.  They've stood on the pier as our ship slowly pulled away and waved goodbye.


This time, we were the ones who took a bag of precious popcorn and handed it to Judy to help fuel her twenty hour ride on a ship.  We were the ones carrying huge bags of rice down the pier.  We were the ones in the outer circle praying for the inner circle of precious friends.



And we were the ones driving back up the hill to SITAG, sniffling and fighting tears by remembering all of the laughter we've shared with this family.

Wednesday, June 12, 2019

Miraculous Community

"The wisdom of true community often seems miraculous...and is more a matter of divine spirit and possible divine intervention.  This is one of the reasons why the feeling of joy is such a frequent concomitant of the spirit of unity."  ~Scott Peck


Tuesday, June 11, 2019

Ship Update


We were all in our pajamas last night, I had just finished reading a couple of chapters of Postern of Fate with Olivia and Five Little Peppers and How They Grew with Katherine, and we had already brushed our teeth.  Then the phone rang.  The clerk from the Kosco wanted to let Aaron know that the ship was leaving at 10:00 p.m.  So, we went into ship prep mode and got Aaron down to the wharf.  Whew!


As I came down the SITAG driveway from my morning exercise today, I saw Olivia on our porch talking on the phone.  It was Aaron.  He was still sitting on the ship in Honiara's wharf.  We decided to wait a little bit longer to see if the ship would go, but by mid-morning it became clear that the Kosco wasn't going anywhere.  After twelve hours on the ship, Aaron called our Operations Manager to come pick him up.  So, we fixed a nice breakfast, poured an especially big cup of coffee, and gave my hubby some refreshment after a rough night.

Our next best option for transport seems to be the Nakita on Sunday.  Stay tuned!

Ship Update


Soooo...the Kosco changed its plan and isn't sailing tonight.  But nobody knows when it might go out to our area.  Aaron walked down to the ship's office this afternoon, but couldn't get any confirmation of their plans.  We understand that they are trying to fill up their hold to make their trip financially profitable.  The Nakita says their engine is fixed and they plan to go out on Sunday.  So we're being super flexible around here!

Monday, June 10, 2019

Honiara Woman's Daybook



For today...Monday, June 10

From the kitchen...Meatless Monday.  Baked oatmeal for breakfast, and my splattered and well loved Laurel's Kitchen for a dilly cheese spread with crackers for lunch as well tamale pie for supper.

On my knees in prayer...for our visas to be stamped inside our passports.  We've been trying for two weeks, and they still aren't ready.  Feels a little bit funny not to have our passports in hand.  Hoping after this long four day weekend (Queens Birthday Observed plus WhitMonday) that we'll be able to pick them up.


My kids prefer homemade cottage cheese to the store bought stuff (which I prefer).

Swissy Spread
(from "The New Laurel's Kitchen")
1/2 cup grated Swiss
1/2 cup low-fat cottage cheese 
1/4 chopped green pepper
1/2 teaspoon dill weed
salt and pepper to taste

In the learning rooms...we're still waiting for Aaron to get out to the village where all of our school books are stored.  We've started listening to The Golden Goblet, and Katherine has begun reading Story of the World, Volume 1, and Mara, Daughter of the Nile as she begins to study World History.

On my bookshelf..."Blackberry Winter" by Margaret Mead.  A fascinating look at her early life through the lens of her adult anthropologist self.


A heart of thankfulness...so grateful for my hubby and his willingness to come along each morning as my "security" as we sweat and  navigate the dogs and the potholes along the road.

Pondering these words..."Telling someone to change makes it less rather than more likely that they will.  This is because people almost never change without first feeling understood."  ~Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen

A few plans for the rest of this week...we're hoping to put Aaron on a boat tomorrow evening.  The Kosco keeps delaying their return to our language group, and the Nakita is having engine trouble.  An always delightful and productive CHED committee meeting on Wednesday afternoon.  A meeting with Woodford International School on Thursday to talk about the possibilities of Olivia taking the PSAT and SAT in Honiara instead of having to fly to Australia.


One of my favorite things...my kids.

Outside my window...the rain has just started falling and the temperature is falling, too.  Makes me so happy.

A peek into my world...last Friday night's SITAG barbecue.  That kingfish was worth the wait!

Sunday, June 9, 2019

Sweet Sabbath

"When you're totally honest about the pain, what's at the center?  Could it be that you're not getting what you want?  You're getting an invitation to grow, I think, as unwelcome as it may be."  
~Shauna Niequist


Our friend, Hensi, stopped by SITAG last night and visited for a while.  It was so good to catch up on all of the village news.  He agreed with Aaron that Kosco's empty hold yesterday didn't bode well for today's trip.  Sure enough, when Aaron called the Kosco this morning to double check that the ship was going (before we made the trip down to the wharf and got charged for the kilometers), the ship's clerk said the ship was now planning to go on Tuesday.  This is two weeks of trying to find a ship that will take Aaron out to our village and two weeks of ships changing their schedules.  He's trying to make two trips to Marulaon in June before he begins to fill in as acting director for SITAG in July.


We're looking at this as an "invitation to grow".  Our situation is the norm here in the Solomon Islands, but that doesn't make it any easier when we keep making plans and those plans keep changing.

On this breezy Sunday afternoon, I'm thankful for things like vanilla syrup.  I originally mixed up this recipe to go on Saturday morning waffles, but we quickly discovered that a squirt in iced coffee is delicious and that the syrup makes a phenomenal London Fog Latte (one of Aaron's favorites).

Vanilla Syrup
(adapted from "More With Less")

Combine in saucepan:
1 3/4 cup white sugar
1/4 cup brown sugar
1 cup water

Bring to boil, cover, and cook 1 minute.  Cool slightly.  Add:

1 tsp. vanilla

Cover saucepan for a few minutes as syrup cooks to melt down crystals, helps prevent syrup from crystallizing later in storage.

Friday, June 7, 2019

Healthy Community

"If our goal is healthy community and loving our neighbors, we need to rethink our approach.  Before we can learn from each other, before we can truly grow into a clearer picture of God's good kingdom, we have to fall in love with listening....Only as we engage in the hidden practice of listening do we learn about the struggles of others, gaining empathy where we once cast judgement." 


A knock on my door prodded me down the hallway to see who was on my porch.  I found two thirsty and adorable young ladies who had been playing outside.  They just needed a drink of water and a listening ear.

Thursday, June 6, 2019

Fish, Flooding, Family

Yesterday at market, Aaron was commissioned with finding a kingfish so our family would have something to put on the grill for an upcoming SITAG gathering.  He called with the news that the only one he could find weighed 41 pounds.  We agreed that it was a good buy because the steaks would be magnificent, and we could likely find another family at SITAG who would split the fish with us. (and we did!)  Faithful Patteson showed Aaron the best way to prepare the fish and shared his secret marinade recipe, too.  We all wanted to eat fish right away, but we enjoyed one of our favorite pasta salads instead while we wait for the cookout tomorrow.



This morning when I woke up, I found a text from my mom telling me that my grandmother needed to evacuate her home on Lake Conway.  She was wondering if we Grandma could move into our place.  As much as we would love to have renters in our sweet little house (please keep praying!), I'm grateful that our family can provide a safe haven for my grandmother for the next week while she awaits the receding floodwaters.

Wednesday, June 5, 2019

Global Running Day

Global Running Day was a big success!


All ages and stages joined in to steward our bodies well.  The youngest participant was four and the oldest was, shall we say, middle-aged.



We finished up our morning's activities with breakfast. My mom's breakfast casserole recipe and sweet fellowship to get our Wednesday started well!



Tuesday, June 4, 2019

Community beyond human endeavor

"It is God himself who makes community possible.  His presence is catalytic to the experiencing of togetherness beyond human endeavor." ~Julie Gorman 


Sometimes living in community looks like hauling kids on your back in the swimming pool.  Even when they don't belong to you!  We are loving all of the adopted nieces and nephews and aunts and uncles that come along with living at SITAG.

Monday, June 3, 2019

Farewell, Judy and Patteson


Last Friday, we said goodbye to some dear friends who have worked at SITAG (Solomon Islands Translation Advisory Group) and BTLPSI (Bible Translation & Literacy Partnership Solomon Islands) just as long as we have.  Their kids have grown up alongside ours, participated in races with ours, made airport runs with us, and helped us get on and off our ships.


So in the traditional Solomon Islands way, all day Friday was spent cooking in preparation for a farewell feast.  


Aaron has a reputation as an expert coconut scraper and squeezer, so he was quickly put to work preparing the thick coconut cream that would go inside the pumpkins and on top of the trays of slippery cabbage and chicken.


The girls and I helped in any way our friends asked.


Sometimes, I was too helpful and tried to put dishes away before they were cleaned!


Working together was a sweet reintroduction to Solomon life and helped my girls find their new places at two years older than the last time we lived here.


Cooking together was fun and exhausting.  But even with all that AMAZING food,


saying goodbye to this servant hearted couple who keeps SITAG and BTLPSI running smoothly reduced us all to tears. 


Thank you Patteson and Judie for your friendship and for your service to Bible translation.  You and your family will be missed desperately.