Monday, December 17, 2018

Gingerbread


Decorations filled the bowls, ready and waiting to dazzle.


Rulers and pencils and templates lay scattered around, and words like slope and "rise over run" floated through the air.


Soon the house began to smell good as two different batches of gingerbread dough cooked in the oven.  One recipe is our old favorite, the other is a new favorite that Sarah found.


1 cup butter
1 cup brown sugar
4 tsp. ground ginger
4 tsp. cinnamon
1 1/2 tsp cloves
 1 tsp black pepper
1 1/2 tsp salt
2 eggs
1 1/2 cups molasses
1 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp baking powder
6 cups flour


Cream butter and sugar and gradually add other ingredients, stirring in flour last.  Chill, roll out 1/8 inch thick, and bake at 350 degrees Fahrenheit for about 15 minutes.


Our annual gingerbread edifice changes from year to year.


But every year, the creativity that emerges from this family (they get it all from their dad) totally blows me away.




I am very aware that our family is changing as our amazing kids grow, and that this may be the last time the six of us are together for the Great Choate Gingerbread Bakeoff.


So, I'm soaking up every minute, every laugh, 


every delicious bite of JBU's clock tower, a Christmas tree, our home complete with the six of us, JBU's cathedral, and a gothic prayer chapel complete with stained glass windows.


Sunday, December 16, 2018

Sweet Sabbath

"No one can celebrate a genuine Christmas without being truly poor.  The self-sufficient, the proud, those who, because they have everything, look down on others, those who have no need even of God -- for them there will be no Christmas.  Only the poor, the hungry, those who need someone to come on their behalf, will have that someone.  That someone is God.  Emmanuel.  God-with-us.  Without poverty of spirit there can be no abundance of God."  ~Oscar Romero


One of the best things about living in the Solomon Islands is the utter dependence it produces in me.  Dependence on God and dependence on those who live around me.  In America, it's too easy to fall into the trap of thinking I can do life without help...impeding my relationship with God and my relationship with people.  Which is why this quote rings so true for me:

"Without poverty of spirit there can be no abundance of God."

I might also add that when I feel self-sufficient and proud, I have no need of friends and family and tend to stay walled up in my own house.  When I feel like I can do this thing called life on my own, I won't have authentic relationships.  But when I'm brought to my knees by my sinfulness and my lack of wisdom and my absolute need for a circle of people around me, I am forced to be transparent.  And that's where the abundance of God and the deepening of friendships begins.

Saturday, December 15, 2018


Some people choose to live a lifestyle of servanthood, and Henk and Margreet are two of the most down-to-earth, servant hearted people I know.  They were making a quick trip to America to visit some family members and chose to drive to spend a little bit of time with us.  I think they were on the road longer than they were actually in our house!  We sure do love these guys.


Last year, we got to see them in their home in Canada, but we're used to sweating and serving together in the Solomon Islands, so seeing each other wearing long sleeves looked a little funny.


As always, they found some way to serve our family, Henk used his skills to show us how to start removing Johnny Appleseed from our kitchen walls.  This may be a project for all six of us to tackle over Christmas Break!

Friday, December 14, 2018

St. Lucia's Day


As the oldest daughter at home this year, Olivia took the responsibility of preparing the St. Lucia's Day breakfast for the family yesterday morning.  She chose to make Almond Danish Swirls because most of the work could be done the night before, and I needed to be out the door early to teach orchestra all day.


It's days like this that we miss Sarah (and Benjamin) the most, but we are so grateful they are thriving in college!

Wednesday, December 12, 2018

Advent Calendar


"Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites!  You clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence."  Matthew 23:25

As we continue our journey through Advent, this verse on the tag reminds us to continue checking the condition of our hearts and to ask the Lord to keep scrubbing away.  


It's also a signal that Christmas mugs and drinks are that day's treat!

Tuesday, December 11, 2018

Christmas Candlelight


Aaron and I treasure the Christmas Candlelight performances from our college days.  And we are utterly overwhelmed that Sarah and Benjamin have a similar opportunity at JBU.


One of the hardest things as parents is recognizing gifts in our kids and having the wisdom to steward them well.  Moving overseas left us bereft of musical training opportunities and ensembles for our children.  We are so grateful that the Lord has brought a wealth of understanding and patient mentors and teachers and ensembles into each of our children's lives to help make up for those "lost" years.


Sarah's solo was lovely, she sang in two ensembles (that's a story for another blog post).  Benjamin played viola in the chamber orchestra and sang in two ensembles as well.  They both had a host of friends and cheerleaders (including Sarah's incredible roommate whom we love so much) in the audience.  The service was worshipful and beautiful.


Most programs like this end with Silent Night.  This particular tradition follows the candlelit Silent Night with "Fairest Lord Jesus".  

Beautiful Savior! Lord of all the nations!
Son of God and Son of Man!
Glory and honor, praise, adoration,
Now and forever more be Thine.


And afterward, when our college kids were partying with JBU's School of Music, the rest of us partied at Braum's (why don't we have one of these in our hometown?!?) and enjoyed their Christmas milkshakes.  The gingerbread is my personal favorite!

Monday, December 10, 2018

Advent Serving Sundays

Last year during Advent, we enjoyed "Serving Saturdays".  This year, I switched it to "Serving Sundays".  But, because of our crazy schedules, that doesn't mean that the activity actually takes place on a Sunday.


Our kids (even the ones far away) each got $10 to spend toward a local food pantry.  Olivia and Katherine had a blast budgeting and choosing how to spend their money with good stewardship.



Sunday, December 9, 2018

Advent Weekend Wonders

"What we are in fact celebrating is the awe-inspiring humility of God, and no amount of familiarity with the trappings of Christmas should ever blind us to its quiet but explosive significance….Amid the sparkle and the color and music of the day's celebration we do well to remember that God's insertion of himself into human history was achieved with an almost frightening quietness and humility."  ~J.B. Phillips


Saturday, December 8, 2018

Amahl and the Choate Visitors



We usually save "Amahl and the Night Visitors" for Epiphany.  I've never seen a live performance that didn't include Aaron.  Until now.


When a friend of ours said he was singing in a performance, we knew we had to attend.  This is one of our very favorite and most familiar operas.  We have high hopes to be a part of a performance one day, whether it's playing in the pit or singing in the shepherd's chorus or Aaron singing the part of Kaspar, the king, or maybe all of the above!


 The sweetest thing about this particular matinee performance at Wildwood Park for the Arts was the way the conductor spoke to the special audience of children to prepare them for the story.  And the way he drew them in again at the end when he wrapped up the conversation.  He told the children that Amahl had a problem and asked them to watch and identify the problem.  After the performance, he asked what Amahl's problem was, and the first answer was that his mother didn't believe him.  I was gobsmacked, because it was so obvious to me that Amahl had a physical problem - he was lame.


I needed the different perspective.  These kiddos carried on a thoughtful discussion with the conductor for just a few minutes before they moved on to dive into their sack lunches.  This is the perfect first opera, and I was excited to see such a young audience.  Especially a group that might not normally be exposed to a performance like this.  And this year, I was grateful that we didn't have any broken bones to accompany the opera!


Friday, December 7, 2018

Christmas Pajamas

The girls have expressed how much they enjoy our Advent tag countdown with small activities or gifts each day to point our eyes and hearts to Jesus.  When we are in America, it's an easy and meaningful way to prepare for Christmas.  I'm so grateful for technology that allows us to send pictures and texts quickly and easily as our college kids open the envelopes and packages I sent to them.  I love being able to stay connected even though we are far apart.  


One of the most anticipated tags is the one that says, "Read Colossians 3:12.  Clothe yourself with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.  And new pajamas."

Thursday, December 6, 2018


Paula Deen's super easy sausage swirls and Steven Sharp Nelson's "Christmas Cello" are nourishing our bodies and souls this week.

Wednesday, December 5, 2018

"Therefore you do not lack any spiritual gift as you eagerly wait for our Lord Jesus Christ to be revealed.  He will keep you strong to the end, so that you will be blameless on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ.  God, who has called you into fellowship with his Son Jesus Christ our Lord, is faithful."  1 Corinthians 1:7-9


"Turn our eyes this season from the temporary satisfaction we crave and plant in us a constant hunger for you alone.  Remind us in the waiting that you have already enriched our lives in every way, providing us with every good gift that we don't even know we need."  

This was the reading the day before one of THOSE days.  A day when my pride kept slamming me up against the wall.  Over and over and over again.  I think this lesson might take more homework than I anticipated.

People canceling commitments at the last minute and marital strife had me gasping.  Only days before, a friend had started a "12 Days of Christmas" Facebook group to energize her marriage and encourage others (loosely based on this blog series), and I pridefully thought, "I have a great marriage!  Don't need to even look at that stuff."  Ka-BLAMM!  Thankfully, I do have a patient, loving husband and a God that provides me with every good gift that I don't even know I need.  A God who strengthens me even as He lovingly points out the pockets of pride that exist in my life.


Tuesday, December 4, 2018


I am a lover of routine and schedule and knowing what to expect.


So when we saw that Jerron, one of our former students, was conducting Handel's Messiah at the University of Arkansas at Pine Bluff (a little more than an hour away from us), we changed our plans and started our Advent with a worshipful bang!  I'm so glad we did.  


In the midst of dentist appointments and school and new glasses and all of the lovely things that make daily life so full, I'm grateful for the Advent tags to help us pause and remember.  Even simple things like making peppermint bark for just a few minutes help me refocus.