"Marriage, even though it will introduce us to some of life's most arduous moments, has brilliant intentions in mind. It's unapologetically interested in chipping away at our dysfunctional thoughts, patterns, and postures in life and inviting us - and our spouses - to become the best version of ourselves." ~Tyler Ward, "Marriage Rebranded"
We got caught in the rain during our morning walk. But we didn't quit.
The vital habit of not giving up? We're still honing our skills:
-Don't bail on a hard conversation, do stick around and be present both physically and emotionally.
-Don't stop at the surface level, do dig down and continue to focus on the heart.
-Don't build a wall, brick by brick by heavy brick, instead do allow intimate access into thoughts and feelings.
Sounds like the stuff that superheroes are made of, and we are definitely NOT superheroes. These proficiencies, the "sandpaper" that smooths our rough edges and helps us become the "best version of ourselves", are totally impossible without a loving Heavenly Father who provides His Word for guidance, the still small voice of the Holy Spirit, and friends along the way who provide sage advice and encouragement. Don't quit. Marriage is worth the hard work.
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