Setting Goals

 As I'm slowly gaining energy and stamina, I'm beginning to step outside my comfort zone more and more. I'm setting some small goals in a variety of places. My personality likes charts, graphs, small step to success, etc. One of my favorite social media accounts that helps me with goal setting is thejustinmecham. His PDFs set me up for success.

1) My first goal is to get back to the sewing machine. I've not touched it in years! While I was looking at patterns, I stumbled across this one for cancer patients. My jaw hit the ground, and I was overwhelmed with gratitude that the people who create patterns would consider the needs of cancer patients with all of the poking and prodding they endure. This isn't the pattern I bought, the big reveal will come later :)

2) I'm giving my students the opportunity to participate in an April practice challenge, and that served as the kickstart I needed for my own practice. I haven't had a thumb callous in a very long time, so my first goal is to rebuild that callous and the muscles that thumb position needs to be strong and safe. My second goal is a certain number of practice minutes a week. I'm starting small and hoping to grow!

3) The third thing I'm doing right now to nudge me out of my comfort zone is participating in a plant sale. My buddy from Shaky K Farm invited me to join her this weekend. I won't have the hundreds and hundreds of seedlings the she will offer, but I will have a beautiful variety of sweet peppers and cherry tomatoes that I grew from Baker Creek Heirloom seeds.

Pyromania

Our burn ban was finally lifted after we got some rain,

and Katherine, my village girl, needed to make a fire to feed her pyromania.

 

Our Sunday afternoon routine during the school year includes Arkansas Youth Symphony Orchestra rehearsal. Aaron and I thrived in this program, and watching Katherine and some of my other students make music with this group brings me joy.

While she is rehearsing, it's time for "Coffee and Calendar". While Aaron is back in the Solomon Islands, I have a solo date :) I'm grateful for gift cards to purchase my weekly cortado and for the little corner booth at our favorite Barnes and Noble.

 

Sweet Sabbath

"The limit is set by the weekly work pause that breaks the production cycle. And those who participate in it break the anxiety cycle. They are invited to awareness that life does not consist in frantic production and consumption that reduces everyone else to threat and competitor.

And as the work stoppage permits a waning of anxiety, so energy is redeployed to the neighborhood. The odd insistence of the God of Sinai is to counter anxious productivity with committed neighborliness. The latter practice does not produce so much, but it creates an environment of security and respect and dignity that redifines the human project." 

~Walter Brueggman, "Sabbath as Resistance"

I never considered "committed neighborliness" as an antidote to "anxious productivity". But the act of taking flowers to Grandma and sitting with her for an afternoon does slow me down. And hosting a game night for friends who live a couple of blocks away takes my energy from other things and redeploys it to my neighborhood. Those activities also refresh me in ways I can't explain.

Update from the Solomon Islands

Aaron's second week was spent in Honiara working with the Lavukal students who are currently training to join the team. In addition to the classes they are taking at Islands Bible Ministries, Aaron is teaching them how to create a back translation and helping them to become more fluent in reading their heart language, Lavukaleve.

Relationships are one of the most important things to Solomon Islanders. When Aaron was at the market, one of the ladies from whom we've bought fruits and veggies recognized him. She asked how long he had been back in town and how Sarah was doing.

We're grateful that Aaron's time in Honiara overlapped with several of our colleagues who also work remotely most of the time. In this picture, Taylor, Aaron, and John represent close to 100 years of experience as translation advisors. We're humbled to serve alongside people who have given so many years of quiet, faithful service to Bible translation in the Solomon Islands.

More Wedding Bells

Tis the season when our kids and their friends are getting married. We were honored to be invited to a wedding of some of our adopted kiddos. 

Elisa and Aaron stayed with us during Fall Break several years ago, and Elisa returned the following year. We've been watching these MKs grow in their relationship and cheering them on each step of the way.

Katherine and I made the road trip to NW Arkansas and met Olivia (an added bonus!) at the wedding.

The wedding fell on our 35th hand-holding-versary, so I wore Aaron's wedding ring. He doesn't wear it when he's in the Solomon Islands, a turtle shell ring takes the place of this gold band. We've celebrated in various ways over the years, and our kids all know the story.

What a treasure to celebrate the next chapter of this couple's life!

The next day, we got to spend some time with Olivia and Conor. We took a picnic lunch and explored the Rookery Trail at Lake Sequoyah Park.

Connor, who knows all the things about reptiles, found a cute little snake and taught us some fun facts.

I'm so thankful we got to make this quick trip! Hanging out with my young adults doesn't happen nearly as often as I would like, so every opportunity is a delight. 

Dynamic Duo

Katherine and I haven't slowed down since Aaron left America, we've found a good rhythm even with our very different body clocks. One afternoon, we went to Grandma's house to join one of my cello students who also runs a lawn care business. My dad also joined us with his chainsaw in hand.

We picked up sticks and fallen trees and cleared the way for the guys on the riding lawnmowers to clean up. Her yard looked great after a couple of dusty hours!

The days have been warm enough that we enjoy supper on the porch whenever we are both at home. Between her evening ceramics classes at ASU Beebe and my cello students, our paths are always crisscrossing.

And He's Off!

A few days after I returned from the orchestra trip, we put Aaron on a plane to fly back to the Solomon Islands. 

His first week was full of meetings upon meetings, thanks to overlapping with several other visitors. I think Aaron was trying to make us jealous with the pictures of fish and all of the beautiful fruits and veggies at market.

He walks almost everywhere he goes, probably because it's faster and cheaper than driving :)

On my bookshelf for Lent

 "We think that idols are bad things, but that is almost never the case. The greater the good, the more likely we are to expect that it can satisfy our deepest needs and hopes. Anything can serve as a counterfeit god, especially the very best things in life." ~Tim Keller

In addition to my perennial favorite, "Journey to the Cross", I've added two other thoughtprovoking books during this Lenten season.

On my Kindle, I'm slowing chewing through Keller's "Counterfeit Gods". This book is shining a bright light on my heart.

I'm listening to "Undone" by Philip Yancey and John Donne. Written during COVID, Yancey's reflects on Donne's devotionals. Even though Donne lived hundreds of years ago, his experiences with personal sickness and with ministering to his congregation during the plague bring suffering under the microscope and are refreshingly practical today.

Orchestra Trip to Oklahoma City

Right smack dab in the middle of the month, the high school orchestra took a trip to Oklahoma City. When I got an invitation to go as a chaperone, I jumped at the chance, despite the fact that I am still not back to 100%.

One of the unexpected treats was getting to see Benjamin. He didn't get to come to see Sarah perform in Dallas, but he just happened to be in OKC visiting his sister-in-law's family the same weekend we were there.

Some of the orchestra students surprised me with some sparkly pins,

and the same group of thoughtful students got each of the teachers Lego minis.

The students played for the faculty at Oklahoma City University and received some valuable feedback.

A former orchestra student now attends OCU, and it just happened to be his birthday! Seeing Sam made everybody smile. He is well loved.

The trip also included a OKC symphony performance. The conductor is German, and the program was all German music. His pre-concert talk was a delight.

 I thought last year's trip would be my last one, what a delight to spend time making memories with these amazing teachers and students once again.

First Half of March

So many good things are happening in March!

One of my cello students made a courageous leap and auditioned for a residential summer music camp in another state. He always works so hard, and his diligence paid off as he was able to perform his music from memory with a professional collaborative pianist.  Now we wait for the results!

In our last coffee and calendar date of the semester (because when Aaron returns from the Solomon Islands Katherine won't have any more weekend rehearsals), we decided to hike up Pinnacle Mountain.

We watched the sunset, and for a few minutes we had the mountain top all to ourselves.

As the days get more and more beautiful, I've really enjoyed meeting friends for a walk and a visit. Why didn't I think of this before?!?

I planted a second round of tomatoes and peppers. Our average last freeze is in the middle of April, so it won't be long before lots of seedlings go into our raised beds. I'm learning more about gardening every year.

 

Purim

This year we celebrated Purim early because I was going out of town. Katherine met me after school and we joined up with one of my favorite preschoolers to introduce Hamantaschen to her family. Making and eating cookies is always more fun together.

Sweet Lenten Sabbath

"Orr emotions are a window into what our hearts really love. The rise and fall of your feelings function as a barometer to what you truly value and want out of life. Your joy, sadness, fear, anger, happiness, despondency, contentment, discouragement, rejoicing, and inner grumbling can point you to what is ruling your heart at street level." ~Paul David Trip, "Journey to the Cross"

The above quote stopped me in my tracks as I pondered where I find my joy. Certainly, I love picking fresh bouquets from our yard and sharing them with people in my community. I find one of the best ways to determine where my idols are hiding is to look for the things that promote my "inner grumbling". Oh, there are so many. They are the things where I'm tempted to find comfort and security and peace instead of letting my Sovereign God handle the details.